It's hilarious that life's is not what we always wanted..
Even though we've got that determination,confidence and hardwork..it's still hard to believe that the conclusion is not the same as what we think during the process, which means disappointment. Well, yeah what will you do when it came to this? It's surprising for me that I've been through this kind of disappointment and I've been able to cope with this, again through something unrelated such as laughing.
Yes, I do agree that love is sometimes painful especially when we've received some disappointment. We did lots of sacrifices and whatever it is, and yet even though we thought that we won that particular person's heart, eventually the result will come to NIL. Eiits! hold on, that's what many people think, but if we all should realise that it is rude to say that result is NIL.. Commonly, people will say that even though we've failed we will get some experience..fine, that's one of the reasons why it's not NIL, but the real reason why it's not NIL is that we need to appreciate on what they have done to you. Forget about the disappointment he/she gave to us, forget the painful past he/she gave to us, why not reminisce the events when he/she made us happy?..
It's rude that we actually forget all his/her good deeds or something that he/she have already done to make us happy.. The worst case if he/she did nothing good to us..well just the feeling itself (I'm referring to the feeling of liking him/her) is something that you should appreciate.. He/she might never care about on how we appreciate him/she or watever..but REMEMBER! this is for yourself not for the person you like...we give him/her respect, and in the same time we're comforting ourself..
Why I'm talking about this is because of a feeling called 'Jealousy'.. jealousy is something that make us to forget the good deeds and what we should appreciate of the person we like or have crush. Why? Well..it will actually make us blind, not sight but our heart..you will always think that you're losing now, which is actually not..but jealousy will gradually make you lose by being jealous. Jealousy leds a person to be moody, unstable, violent and being weird by doing something unexpected that our friends or even the person whom we like. This will make he/she feel illfeel and eventually all our past effort will be wasted just like that..all because of jealosy...
Sometimes jealousy might even led ourself to choose to give up...
Give up? That's so uncool.. There's two common mistake that teenagers usually do.. Firstly, when you give up before you even start on what you gonna do.. I understand,we never ever want to get any pain or disappointment..but if you never fall into the darkness, how can you find the new light? In our life, it is essential to replace our current and old light.. you can only keep a light forever when you really think that it will never led ourself to the deepest darkness.Never ever keep the light that betrayed us. So instead of giving up even before we start, so might as well we try it and whatever that will happen to us, just remember..it is something that we should really appreciate..
" Light led to darkness, darkness led to light"Secondly, it is when you give up when you're close to win it... Ironically, we will never know that we're close to win it..hilarious.. Even though it's hard to know whether we're winning or losing, it will still be
uncool if we give up before we really confirmed that we're goin to lose it. Instead of that, why can't we just think that we're goin to win it? Believe me, just think that you're winning it, and eventually you'll prevent yourself from being moody and do something that might the person whom you like to lose respect to you..so just think that you're winning it, don't let jealousy get over you. Never give up till you saw the stop sign! As what I've said before
" Cry when it really can't be helped, cry when it's helped."and in addition, this is from Cindy:
" What you think is what you get"Stop jealousy from conquering our minds..respect and appreciate the person whom we like..especially when we're male.. even though we're being very sensitive in this kind of situation..don't ever lose our respect by forgetting something that we should not forget..
Even though I never had a dream come true, I'll smile and others smile too
Even though I never had a dream come true, I'll laugh and make others laugh too
Even though I never had a dream come true, I'll never forget anything,never..
Cause,that's uncool...
Even though I never had a dream come true...
mada mada dane...
If your life is hard, take it easy..If your life is too easy, make it hard... - Isnu
